About Me

My Story
 

My name is M (they/them/theirs). As a neurodivergent (ND) and queer person, I have lived experience that has inspired me to be the coach, mentor, and advocate that I would have wanted. I am passionate about supporting other ND people and their supportive partners to promote neurodiversity, inclusivity, and equity.

I enjoy spending my time with my dog, Berkley, my plants, crystals, writing, designing/creating, and connecting with others. Some of my natural skills are recognizing patterns, creative problem solving, innovating, nurturing, and communicating on someone else’s level. My core values are justice, authenticity, making a difference, empathy, and love.

Before I identified as Autistic, I viewed myself as the opposite of how I view myself now. I used to think I was broken, weird, worthless, crazy, and any other negative word I could think of. Growing up as a hyperlexic, “gifted”, ADHD, OCD, undiagnosed Autistic, closeted queer kid, I knew I was different and hated it. I quickly learned what was expected of me from my family, friends, and social norms. I learned to curate a version of myself that fit in with others. I thought since I could act like other people, then I should act like them. Sure, the “curated” or “masked” version of myself fit in, but I still didn't because it was all an act. As soon as I left social interactions as my masked self, I would feel completely exhausted and drained, and would often have what I now realize were autistic meltdowns or shut-downs.
 

When I started learning about and embracing my Autistic identity, passions, interests, and strengths, I created my foundation for authentic connections with others. I struggled a lot because I didn’t know who I was, why I was different, or how to get the support I needed. Now, my mission is to help other neurodivergent people and supportive people in their lives discover and explore their neurodivergent identity and navigate barriers to unlock limitless opportunities for success.